A White Man’s Guide to Dating Asian Girls

“A White man seeks Asian woman not for her immense beauty or intellect, but for her tiny cooter.” – Confucius 1

Hey, white guys. You probably know by now that having an Asian girlfriend is a rite of passage for all white men. “Date an Asian chick” has become akin to “Go skydiving” or “Live in New York” in the veritable white guy bucket list.  Of course, dating an Asian girl is very different from dating your typical Nancy or Betty 2.  So, in order to snag yourself a little pre-op Mulan, I present to you a White Man’s Guide to Dating Asian Girls.

STEP ONE: Finding an Asian

Asian girls typically hang out at one of three places: the mall, the library, or Pinkberry. When you get there, look around: the best Asian girl to pick up will be the one wearing a hoodie and heels (there is always one).  When you approach her, ask for the time. As she takes out her phone to tell you, you should make a nice comment about her phone flair (Asian girls always have some bedazzled jank hanging off their phones, like a cartoon duck or a jade tiger). And with that, you’re in.  Asian girls will go on a date with anyone if she can tell a cutesy story about it later: “And then, after he saw my Keroppi keychain, he asked me out at Pinkberry! Pinkberry!”

STEP TWO: The First Date

It doesn’t matter where you take an Asian girl on a first date (as long as it isn’t Wendy’s 3). You can impress her by simply sticking to the following topics of conversation: food, fashion, and making fun of other Asians (“So, did your friends just stay in and do math problems all night? They are so bad!”).  If, by the end of the night, she giggles into her napkin/hand fan, you’ve got yourself a second date.  However, no matter what you do, don’t step on the yellow-fever land mine that is acknowledging the Asian fetish.  Yes, we all implicitly know what’s going on here–Why else did America go to war in two Asian countries4 last century?–But don’t say it out loud. Us girls all like to pretend that we’re your first Far East foray.

STEP THREE: The Relationship

If you get to the point now where you want to date an Asian girl (like… really date her), you better understand where she’s coming from. Given our immigrant roots, most Asian girls endure a latent insecurity about everything from our boobs to our patriotism (both things that are just slightly there).  We never quite think we’ve assimilated into American society… and sometimes, we’re right. So, as her white, Jewish (80% of the time), totally-secure-and-normal boyfriend, you better be prepared for when your girlfriend mistakes “Soup or salad” for “Super salad” (“Yes, I want the super salad! What is wrong with this Sizzler waiter?!”).  And since Asians have eyes like gravy boats, her crying jags are bound to extend late into the night.  Just FYI.

STEP FOUR: Locking it Down

If you’ve made it this far, then you know all the dirty secrets of dating an Asian girl. You know we hate animals.  You know we pretend to love drinking, even though we turn into full-blown red-faced injuns when we do. Oh yeah, and you know we are racists. Your saintly self just goes with it.  But how can you tell if she feels the same way? Well, you know you’re “in” if your girlfriend takes you home to meet her parents. In Asian cultures, meeting the parents is practically an engagement. Asians don’t let people meet their parents, ever.  (I’m pretty sure I told all my friends in high school that I was an orphan.) But once you’ve broken the seal, you better put a ring on it within 5-7 business days. If you don’t, then you risk alienating the parents. They’ll start asking questions. Getting involved. Calling you at work. Once you’ve met the parents, in Asian cultures, you are now part of the family. And they own you. So just man up and fucking 6 do it.

Lastly, you should know that in Chinese wedding traditions, the groom pays for the wedding. Therefore, my parents want me to marry a Chinese guy and my brother to marry a white girl. It’s just good fiscal policy.

FINAL THOUGHTS: A Bit of Encouragement

Yes, some of this sounds terrible.  But, having an Asian wife does have its perks. Even if you’re uglier than Pau Gasol, your half-Asian children will be adorable.  Plus, you’ll get to be the peacekeeper (and favorite parent) while your wife turns into an evil-witch Tiger Mom. Finally, if you’re ever attacked by a pie-wielding assailant, your Asian wife will be sure to leap out of her chair and protect you, even if you totally deserve it. Because even though we may be high-maintenance and needy, Asians are nothing if not loyal… Well, except for the 1/4 of us that was in Tiger Woods.

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1. Confucius probably did not say this.

2. These names are so white that they went out of style years ago. Do you know anyone under 30 named Nancy or Betty? Neither do I.

3. Yes, someone took me on a first date to Wendy’s. I know what you’re wondering… Chicken nuggets and a baked potato.

4. Counting only the Korean War and the Vietnam War. I would’ve mentioned Japan had we not nuked the place.

5. My parents started learning English by watching Braves games on TBS, so I grew up loving the Braves tomahawk chop. I would do it everywhere… which unfortunately, out of context, looks very much like a Hitler salute. Assimilation fail.

6. I just started a new job and I’ve learned that “fucking” is the best adverb to use when trying to make an emphatic point. So there.

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13 responses to “A White Man’s Guide to Dating Asian Girls

  1. Steven N

    Even if you don’t count Japan in the US wars in Asia, you should probably count the Philippines (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippine–American_War) and China(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boxer_Rebellion) among the Asian countries the US went to war in last century. Just saying…

  2. From someone who has only dated Asians, the right thing to say is, “No, I’m not usually attracted Asian girls.”
    Hilarious post.

  3. An Asian girl

    apparently… nonsense..since this is for sure not from a white guy who is with an Asian girl and knows whats really going on..well, but pretty funny to read~

  4. I have a great sense of humor and I’m an Asian female who dates both white and Asian males, but I don’t see the humor in this. Trying too hard and hating on your own culture is no good…

  5. 1337man

    This post was super funny! I’m a white guy… been dating a Hmong girl for over a year now… I just met the parents after a year of dating! They refused to meet me! I literally about had to force them to meet me haha. This post is pretty true.. from my own experience…

  6. Laurent

    As a white guy with justice I have to post comments according to my travel to china last year. Well I got hitted by most chinese girls during my visit to china. I would say some of them are pretty. But they did not really mind sleeping with you even if they have boyfriends. Almost every chinese girls said that chinese man have many disadvantages including they have small dicks. But the fact is that from my own experience chinese men do not really have so many disadvantages. Some of my friends have chinese boyfriends, they said chinese men just have normal dicks and some of chinese men know how to be great on bed. So I have to consider chinese girls as self-racism. I know a lot of white guys here play with many chinese girls during the 1 month visit, but I will never do that since I only believe true love…

  7. I just found this article while doing research for a piece I’m writing on dude with yellow fever, and I have to say – you’re fricking hilarious. And 100% correct!

  8. Hey That was great. I dated an filipino girl for 4 yrs. alot what true but this was so funny. Thanks ….

  9. Kaleel

    As a brown guy I find it easy to pick up asian chicks. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard this though: “You’re the closest thing to a black guy I’ll ever get to”. I don’t know if its racist or what but usually their mouth was too full to give me an explanation.

  10. mabel

    1. You can’t just stereotype all asian girls because at the end of the day we are all the same, human beings with different backgrounds.
    2. An adverb is consistent of an adjective and verb, also all adverbs end in -ly. example kind (both adjective and verb) = kindly (adverb)
    3. Based on no.2 you’ve proven your stereotype wrong clearly not all asians are smart and are intellects.
    4. We are just normal people. Be yourself cause at the end of the day that’s what you want a girl or guy to love.
    5.Wtf is Pinkberry? i’m Chinese and I don’t even know what on earth that is. Clearly you’re basing this on American asian girls.
    6. As for animals, I hope they kill you:) oh wait I forgot you like killing them and eating them (how’s that for a stereotype) “stir fried chihuahua “

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